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Alan Lastufka: z0mbiearms: Somebody I’m friends with on facebook (because we had one...

z0mbiearms:

Somebody I’m friends with on facebook (because we had one English class together senior year) just got engaged. Which is fine.

But someone commented, “FINALLY.”

I’m pretty sure they haven’t even been together for a year.

WHY ARE YOU IN SUCH A FUCKING RUSH. DO YOU EVEN HAVE…

…but if you just know, you know. And there are some instances where it can be a “finally” moment. For instance, my current boyfriend and I have only been together for a year, but if it wasn’t out of consideration for his parents’ feelings, and the fact that there is no way we can afford a wedding (because neither of us want just us and witnesses in front of a justice of the peace) , an engagement might be official by now. So yeah, I expect that when it does become “official” there will be plenty of those “finally!” comments. And no, I cannot legally drink yet. But just because I’m not yet 21 does not mean that I don’t know what kind of a commitment I am entering. I’m the same age my father was when my parents got married, and they have now been married for 23 years. Would you like to tell them that they rushed?

  1. shoutyourporpoise reblogged this from verticaltangent and added:
    I don’t think being in a committed relationship significantly increased my desire to get married. That’s not even...
  2. verticaltangent reblogged this from shoutyourporpoise and added:
    Two people I knew back in high school got married a couple of weeks ago. Maybe someday I’ll understand. For now…I don’t.
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  4. z0mbiearms reblogged this from petitebruyere and added:
    I don’t think it was necessary for you to get quite that snippy with me, but I understand where you’re coming from. I...
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  6. petitebruyere reblogged this from alandistro and added:
    …but if you just know, you know. And there are some instances where it can be a “finally” moment. For instance, my...
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  8. pastafarian07 said: It seems to me that the hyper-christian kids are always eager to get married so they can fuck. With one exception all the marriages from my class so far have been of that variety.
  9. rabidteenagepragmatist said: I don’t get it. I JUST graduated from high school this spring, and two people from my graduating class are already engaged. It does not make sense to me.
  10. alandistro reblogged this from z0mbiearms and added:
    Yeah I don’t understand most people’s rush either lately. Like, this is the person you are committing the rest of your...